Face Time

Your face is more memorable than your email signature

Much of today’s world is driven by technology, and that technology provides a buffer between humans. That’s great for productivity but not for creating connections. Compare these scenarios:

Theater vs. Movies: When you go to the theater, you’re completely quiet. Everybody focuses on the performers, the music, and the various moving pieces on the set. Compare that to going to the movies where everybody is crunching popcorn, talking to their date, and texting their best friend. They’re not engaged… they’re just watching.

Face-to-Face vs. Phone: People used to go see their neighbors in person. They would spend an hour or two catching up on everything going on in their lives and sharing a lemonade or beer. Now they pick up the phone (or worse yet, text) and share a few brief sentences. Then we wonder why our relationships aren’t as deep as they used to be.

Calling vs. Email: While the phone is less personal than a face-to-face conversation, it’s way more personal than an email. In email people tend to be brief (because they’re busy), rude (because they’re hiding behind a keyboard), and they will normally say things in emails that they would never say in person. While email is great for confirmation, it’s horrible for conversation.

One Moore Thing: You can’t shake hands, give a hug, or see pain on somebody’s face through texting or email. What’s your action plan to engage your customers face-to-face?

What Drives You? (Hint: It’s Not Money)

Nobody’s driven purely by money

Most people think salespeople are driven by money. Hell, most salespeople say they are driven by money. While it may be a short-term incentive, it won’t motivate you forever. To become an effective seller, you have to dig deep into yourself and determine what really drives you. Ask yourself the following questions:

  • Do I truly believe my product helps my customers?
  • Do I make a difference to my clients?
  • What do I do with my money that makes me happy (feed my family, give to charities, buy my friends a beer)?
  • If I didn’t make commissions, would I still sell this service?

If you can determine why you sell, you can position your sales techniques to capitalize on that. If you sell to make people happy, find people that want to be happier; if you sell to create relationships, find people that want relationships.

One Moore Thing: If you continue to sell for money, you’ll continue to find customers that only care about money… and low prices… and low margins.

Rotten Fruit

That low hanging fruit may be rotten

When you’re looking for new prospects, where do you look?

You probably find somebody who is already using your what you sell but being serviced by a competitor. You know they need what you have, they’re familiar with your products and you can do it way better than your adversary. Easy sale, right? Wrong.

Look at the other side of that coin… you’re already competing against somebody before you’ve made the first call. Even worse is they are the incumbent, a known entity; and sometimes the devil you know is better than the one you don’t. You’re probably also going to be competing on price, which lowers margins. And quite frankly, if the prospect is willing to talk to you, they’re probably also talking to your other competitors, which further muddies up the water.

One Moore Thing:  Open a new market, a new vertical with no competition. Find somebody that nobody is talking to but that may have a need for your service. If you take good care of them, you will be the incumbent.

The Superman Effect

Do you have what it takes to be Superman?

When Superman had to save the world or defeat Lex Luther (again), he was poised, confident, and sure of the outcome. It didn’t matter if Jimmy Olsen was cowering in the corner (again), Lois Lane was screaming out of fear (again), or that Perry White was insulting him (again)… he was still Superman.

Your customers are looking for their own Superman. It doesn’t matter if your boss is pressuring you for a monthly report, your installers are behind schedule, or your kids are keeping you up late. They are simply looking for somebody that is consistent and confident; someone that will save their world when it’s crumbling around them.

You can’t be disheveled, stressed out, or concerned about your quarterly numbers. You have to be completely at their service and exude confidence… just like Superman.

One Moore Thing: We all have stresses related to our job, but when you’re in front of your customer the entire focus should be on them. If you do this enough, they will come to see you as Superman; and when you’re working with Superman, you don’t go out to bid.

How Do You Screw Up?

Power Questions = Power Selling

Looking for a power question to make your customers stand up and pay attention to you? Ask them to list the top three mistakes people in their position make when making a similar purchase.

There are two possible outcomes to this question:

  1. They don’t know the answers and will defer to your expertise.
  2. They will think hard about the question and come up with the answers.

In scenario #1, you earn their trust by knowing the answers to questions they didn’t know they had. In scenario #2, they will give you insight into their doubts and you will be better prepared to preemptively address those misgivings. Either way, you will earn the buyer’s respect by being knowledgeable and not asking outdated questions like “what keeps you up at night?”

One Moore Thing: If you ask the same questions everybody else asks, you get the same answers everybody else gets… and the same results.

How To Earn Trust

Trust is easy to build and even easier to lose

Do what you say you’re going to do.

One Moore Thing: Don’t overthink it. People try to play games and use different psychological tactics to “earn” trust when all they’re really doing is trying to trick somebody. Trust is built over time and earned by simply doing what you said you’d do.

What The Beep?

Voicemail can work for you instead of against you

You’ve reached the voicemail of John Connor, please leave a message after the beep.” Now what?

You hate voicemail. Get over it, because that is definitely not an exclusive club. But today’s reality is that you will probably get voicemail 80% of the time you call somebody. Many people hang up when they hit voicemail, but rockstars know that leaving a voicemail is an opportunity for free advertising… if done properly. The issue has become that most people don’t know how to leave a voicemail that will get somebody’s attention. Here are some tips:

  1. Make it brief: If you leave a 4-minute message, somebody may punch you in the face. Hell, if you leave a 4-minute message, you should punch yourself in the face. Make it less than 30 seconds and preferably around 20 seconds. If you can’t leave your message in 30 seconds, work at making it more direct. Trust me, brevity makes the message more concise and effective.
  2. Be a mirror: Prospects are more apt to listen to somebody that sounds like them. If their outgoing voicemail is slow and methodic, your message should sound similar. If it’s fast and upbeat, you should sound full of energy.
  3. Call to action: If you don’t ask them to do something, they won’t.

One Moore Thing: Looking for real-world calling scripts? Here are some that may help:

 

New Beginnings

Congratulations to my little brother, Brian, who was married yesterday. He and his new wife, Debbie, have given themselves a new beginning for a future filled with promise and love.

As a society, we celebrate the new beginnings that weddings, births, and graduations signify. But why is it that in personal relationships we are typically quick (sometimes too quick) to make changes, yet in business we drag out important decisions because we are afraid of the unknown? Because we don’t trust ourselves.

One Moore Thing: If you consider yourself successful at personal relationships, then use same decision-making criteria to flourish in business… your gut.

Just Give

When you’re feeling your in a rut or experiencing a lull in performance, take a little time and give:

Give Time: Go to lunch with a customer. Talk about anything except business. You’ll learn new things, build a deeper connection, and be under no pressure.

Give Back: Take a day and volunteer at a homeless shelter or swinging a hammer for Habitat for Humanity. At the end of the day you’ll be dead tired, but thankful for what you have and refreshed to tackle a new day.

Give Ideas: Come up with three ideas that will help one of your customers increase their business. These ideas should have nothing to do with your offerings. You will be forced to look at things from a different view and your customers will start to view you as a trusted adviser.

Give It A Rest: Take a day off. Go see a daytime movie, enjoy a great lunch, and surprise your wife with dinner when she gets home. Don’t check your email or take phone calls all day.

Give Thanks: Take the day and drive to as many clients as you can. Show up without an appointment and tell them you just stopped by to thank them for their business. Have a brief conversation (don’t overstay your welcome) and tell them to have a fantastic day. They’ll always take your call after that.

Give Hugs: Show some love to people. Hug your husband, your kids, your friends, your assistant, or your customer. How can anybody feel bad after a good hug?

One Moore Thing: The more you give, the more you get back from the universe. It may not always be in the way you expect, but good always comes back to you.

Shopping or Buying?

It’s more fun that it looks…

I love shopping. I know I may lose my Man-Card for that, but it’s true. It doesn’t matter of I’m buying Christmas gifts, clothes, electronics, or even groceries… I just like to shop.

One reason I like shopping is because I like “stuff”… who doesn’t? But the other reason is that I find it cathartic; the process of buying something is relaxing to me. I know what I’m looking for and when I find it, I’m typically ready to purchase. Rarely, if ever, do I buy the lowest price because for me it’s more about value and service. And because I value those things, I also don’t negotiate prices.  I want my seller to make money. I want them to be around next year. I want them to look forward to me walking in their door because I’m a friendly and profitable customer.

I don’t have to be sold, because I’m a buyer.

One Moore Thing: Are you trying to sell to people or talk to buyers?

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